You know, you can't control life. It's crazy how much we wish we could, but it never happens. You try so hard to get things your way, so you can live comfortably, and then poof, it's gone. You may understand one thing, but others may not see it your way and you can't win. It's hard, but you have to accept it. I have yet to figure out how, but that's what you have to do.